I always believed I was going to be a certain sort of person, but I changed.

Or I went Off Brand

Just as a head’s up: this week’s essay includes a story of infertility and motherhood as illustration so if that sort of talk isn’t helpful to you right now, feel free to skip this one.

Dear Loves,

I just read a newsletter from Sarah Bessey who writes Field Notes here on Substack. If you haven’t read her stuff before, go check it out. Her work is powerfu…